She would tell me I am a wonderful person and in the same breath say that I don’t treat her right. Of course, her definition of treating her right included a huge amount of gaslighting edicts that I was supposed to follow. Example: wherever we walked she was supposed to walk in front of me. Just one of many. She had zero empathy to the point that at one point, I was in the hospital with a life-threatening medical issue at Christmas time and she was carrying on with other men all while claiming that she was committed to me. You can expect that they will project but deep down I think they know that they are doing exactly what they accuse others of.
Sloth I’m so tired my tired is tired shirt, hoodie, sweater and v-neck t-shirt
Best Sloth I’m so tired my tired is tired shirt
She accused me of cheating if a woman so much as had a couple of comments on FB while she had men telling her they wanted to “F” her brains out and claimed they were just goofing. She kept those friends as bench sources of adulation and I found out after that she had slept with some of them while supposedly committed to me. Crude and again and I apologize but it explains that narcs can not believe that they are the problem. This answer may be confusing but the best a narc can do is just to live in a constant state of denial.